Finding romantic things to say is easy, even if you are a person of few words or you see yourself as “inarticulate.”
It is possible for everyone
to be able to be romantic and to find romantic ideas and things to say or to use
romantic lines and romantic phrases with your special someone.
Follow the tips below for romantic things to say and you will be well on your way to becoming a real romantic!
Speak from your heart. If you honestly feel and mean what you are
saying, you loved one will sense that you are sincere. Romantic lines
and romantic phrases used without sincerity is just a line – it is
meaningless and mean.
Elaborate on “You look beautiful”. Compliment what
you find beautiful: the color/softness of her hair, the shape of his
mouth, the softness of her skin. Show your partner that you are aware
of their changes and efforts.
Reveal the true depth of feeling that you have. Before saying anything, consider how much you love your partner. Let those warm, fuzzy, love feelings show on your face/in your eyes. This show of emotion is extremely powerful when saying romantic things and change any mundane words into precious terms of endearments.
Use the element of surprise to your advantage.
A seemingly spontaneous “you look great” at the most unexpected place
or time (when exercising, working in the garden, getting groceries) will
a long way in earning extra points for you.
Focus on your partner, not you.
A common mistake we make is that we tend to do and say the things to
each other that we need ourselves. Take the time and make the effort to
figure out what your partner’s real needs and wants are.
Be natural. Look for opportunities
to tell your partner how you feel by weaving romance into your everyday
conversations, sometimes planned, sometimes unexpectedly.
Do not get stuck on looks, but let your partner know that you see and
appreciate what they do and how the act, how they deal with different
situations and people and most importantly, how they make you feel.
Choose your moments.
Saying “you are the only one for me” during a intimate moment is a
good thing, but the whispering it in her ear while surrounded by
beautiful women at a function is worth gold.
Saying it once is not enough!
Reinforcing a romantic remark by repeating it is a great way to
cement your relationship. Saying “I love you” only once and hoping she
got the message is a sure way to convince her that you had a momentary
laps of reason and that you are playing with her affections.
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