Does he have personality flaws?

We all know there are people with personality flaws out there: people who lie, cheat, steal or abuse. You need to be able to recognize them and protect yourself from them.

Work through the list below to sort the good ones from the bad ones. As you answer these questions you will be able to identify what kind of person you are dealing with.

You will be able to know if he has personality flaws.

Does he have a need to get even when wronged?
Does he feel entitled?
Does he feel he got a raw deal from life?
Does he feel the world owes him for his efforts?
Does he drink and/or smoke too much?
Does he use drugs?
Is he responsible on all levels of his life?
Does he loose his temper very quickly?
Is he self-destructive?
Does he respect his and other people’s possessions?
Does he tend to distort the truth?
Does he take responsibility for his actions?
Does he always want and need to be right?
How does he deal with frustration and anger?
Does he pressure you?
Does he hold grudges?
Does he forgive but never forgets?
Does he throw temper-tantrums?
Is he responsible with money?
Does he spend money on you?
Are you spending money on him? Why?
Does he borrow money?
Does he take chances?
Does he lie?
Does he walk his talk?
Is he always late?
Does he drive carefully?
Is he open and honest about every aspect of his life?
Is his relationships with friends and family healthy?

These are not questions you can ask him directly without him running the other way.

You rather need to look very carefully at this behavior and watch out for repeated negatives in his behavior. Don’t judge him on the basis of a single lapse – nobody’s perfect and bad things sometimes just happen.

If you see problems and negatives take note that these problems will not magically go away.

When you start seeing each other, he will be on his best behavior and try to hide his personality flaws. If you are already identifying problems this early into your relationship, just think what will happen when he becomes more comfortable later in your dating relationship. His behavior will become worse not better – it will not go away on its own.

Keep in mind that nobody is perfect, but you are one who needs to decide what kind of treatment you are worth!

Your are the boss of your life!





To learn more about finding Mr Right, go to:

Is he Mr Right?
When seeking Mr Right you need to be prepared, ask the right questions and know what to watch out for, so that you can make an informed decision.

Will he commit?
If you are in a stage of your life where you want a meaningful connection and a real commitment flowing from that connection, you need to be able to recognize a partner that is ready for commitment as well.

Will he be a good parent?
If you dream for your future includes having children or if you already have children of your own, you will want to known if you are dating a person who are capable of being a good parent.

Will he treat me well?
In order for you to figure out if he is going to treat you well, respect you, love you, help you grow, support you, be there for you … ask yourself some of the following questions:

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