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Male Scorpio
Interesting facts about the male Scorpio in love, as well as the Scorpion personality, myth and also read about the other love signs.
Understanding the Male Scorpio
By now you would have heard about the Scorpio reputation for passion and sexual appetites. Yes, the part about passion is accurate. Scorpio is an emotional, feeling sign and tackles every aspect of his life with intense passion and energy.
The bit about the sexual appetites is not accurate. Sexuality is not a purely physical act for him, but rather more about the emotions, a mystical experience that transcends the superficial, that goes deeper that love and body and is somehow more about the soul.
It is a longing for a soul connection that an ordinary relationship and meeting of two bodies can never fulfill and will therefore leave the Scorpio feeling that fulfillment is just beyond his reach. Sexual manuals and techniques will bore him since it is about so much more that the meeting of two bodies.
By now you would have realized that this is a complex and complicated man you are dealing with. There is no place for light, fluffy, shallowness, meaningless encounters or a casual fling. His is a feeling sign and he attaches meaning to everything in his life. Only when his personality is distorted with pain will he engage in anything that is meaningless.
He will very soon get you to open up to the very core of your being. Honesty on your part is a must if you want a relationship with him. Share your wants, needs and vulnerabilities with him and he will the most understanding, gentle, caring and protective partner you can imagine. He has an uncanny ability to read your emotions and then accommodate them. A rare gift.
A relationship with a male Scorpio is at best challenging. Emotions will be intense and fights will be explosive. He is possessive and jealous and will not tolerate you straying in mind or body. You are his. He also believes in revenge and teaching the offender against him a lesson. Retribution will be on the level of an eye for an eye and all that.
What he doesn’t respect he will ignore, using his mask of chilly indifference. He will look through that person as if the person doesn’t exist. For Scorpio that person will no longer exist.
As a feminine water sign he needs (in large amounts) love, recognition, encouragement, affection, companionship and feeling that he part of a close bond. He is a sensitive soul and is very vulnerable to hurt, rejection and neglect. Trust must be earned and he will take a while before he really relaxes into a relationship.
He knows human nature and is acutely aware that feelings can be fleeting and that everything is made up of both light and dark aspects. Be open with him and never be afraid to expose your darker side to him. He is one of the few that will be able to enfold you with his gentleness and understanding.
This will never be an easy relationship, but the rewards will be rich and multiple. He will change that way you look at life and yourself and will let you experience a depth of feelings that will surprise and delight you in unexpected ways. This will be a life-changing experience.
