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by Johnshiju
(India)

Hi.. I'm john..... I have eh doubt tat my partner is not in love with me.:. As she is not talking with me daily, and also she also says tat i won't have any feeling whenever i talk wit you.:) does this is the sign of fake love

My answer:

It is very difficult for me to advice you since you give very little information about your relationship.

I can, however, suggest that you talk to your partner about this. Ask her about her feelings about you and about the relationship. If she wants to continue with the relationship, find out from her what her expectations are, tell her about what you expect from her and try to agree on how each of you will try to fulfill each others expectations.

Talk about everything, find out how she thinks and make it easy for her to share her feelings. Relationships only work when you understand each other well and you care deeply about each others feelings.

Good luck!

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Lonely
by: Ray Bryant

Hi John,

if your partner is not talking to you and you feel insecure about her the take the advice from Andriette. I think that you should try to talk to her and explain your feeling one time. If that does not work then get the hell out. I also took Andriette's advice and it was a disaster. If your lady does not want to talk, end it. It will hurt like hell but you are also important.

My answer:
by: Andriette

See this as a learning experience. Learn how to communicate and learn how to decide that you need and deserve more than you are getting from your partner.

Breaking away from someone is hard. Some describe a break-up as a small death because a part of your life and thinking and caring are dead. But it is also a huge plus, since you are now able to know very clearly what you need, want and be open for.

Spend some time figurering out what you did to attract the "wrong" partner so that you will know and do better next time. What do you need to change and adjust in yourself?

My best wishes to both of you.

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