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Flirting types
When flirting you need to consider that we all filter the information we receive from the outside world and each other, through our senses.
Although we all use all of our senses to experience life, there will always be one type of sensory perception that tends to dominate. Figure out what type of person you are dealing with and you can develop a very successful flirting style.
Sensory perception and the way we therefore flirt and interact, can be divided into three broad flirting types:
Visual
Auditory
Kinesthetic
Visual people communicate and experience life by what they see. They have vivid imaginations and are able to “picture” something with their words.
“See what I mean?”
Auditory persons filter life by what they hear. This person is logical and analytical and will not easily be convinced with smooth words.
“Hear what I’m saying?”
Kinesthetic people experience life by what they feel and touch. They are intuitive, feeling types that can easily get hurt despite a seemingly hedonistic outlook on life.
“Do you feel the same?”
How to identify a flirting type?
Easy … Just watch the way their eyes move. Our eyes move up, down and sideways as the brain process information. Every movement of the eye indicates a certain sense. Pinpoint where someone mostly looks and you will know who’s who.
Visual people tend to look up, as if seeing their imagination drawing a picture in the sky.
Auditory persons eyes move to the side, as if towards the ears.
Kinesthetics look down towards their feeling-centre: the heart.
To learn more about body language, go to:
Signs of physical attraction Reading signs of physical attraction can be easy because our bodies react in very specific ways when feeling attracted to someone.
Does he like me? Watch for a few tell-tale signs and you will know what’s on his mind even before he’s made a first move towards you.
Does she like me? Tossing her hair is a way of wafting pheromones in your direction – a direct invitation.
Signs of being in love Want to know the telltale signs of being in love? Falling in love signs are easy to read if you know what to look for.
Commonsense use of body language When reading body language as a way to interpret someone’s motives, use your head and be clever about it.
Romantic body language Without even realizing, your body tells a potential mate that you are available, interested and good breeding stock just by the way you sit, stand and walk.