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First kiss
Sharing a first kiss with someone you like is a very special experience, and is something that you will remember for the rest of your life. Although there is no right or wrong way to do this, use the following steps as a general guide on how to share a first kiss.
Before doing anything, make sure your partner is feeling the same way as you do and actually wants to share a kiss with you. Is that special connection there? Does it feel as if you are magnetically being pulled together and you just must get closer and touch your partner? Is your partner’s body language open and inviting? (see the section on
body language
to learn more)
Make sure that you are alone. This first kiss is private and between the two of you.
If and when you are sure that your partner wants to share a kiss, do it. Do not hesitate or wait and look for the right moment. The longer you hesitate, the more awkward the moment will become.
Lean in towards your partner. Tilt your head slightly to the side to avoid bumping noses. Don’t move your head in the same direction as you partner – you will surely bump noses then.
Press your lips gently against your partners. Make it a slow, gentle movement. Feel and enjoy the sensation. This is the same as an ordinary kiss, but much longer and slower.
Release the kiss and pull away slightly. Look into your partner’s eyes. Make sure that you are both on the same page. Do not proceed if your partner is looking unhappy and sending negative vibes, rather pull back.
If your partner enjoyed the kiss as much as you did, lean in and kiss again. Use a bit more lip movement this time. Be aware of your partner’s reaction. Only move into a french kiss if your partner is receptive.
Show emotion after your kiss. You just shared a first intimate experience – this is not the time for a poker face. Do what is natural for you as a individual: smile, soft look in your eyes, cup you partner’s face in you hands and say something sweet, caress their cheek, hold hands, you can even say: “wow!”
A kiss is not something you do to someone, but a very special experience that you share with someone.
Remember: the moment you kiss your partner for the first time, the dynamics between you will be changed forever. You are not just friends anymore – your relationship is now on a different level.
Follow the links in the list below to learn more about kissing:
How to kiss Need a little help with kissing? Learn how to kiss with easy step by step photo-instructions.
How not to kiss A kiss can be a very sensual and erotic if done right. Learn how not to kiss and how to avoid making kissing-mistakes and you are on your way to be a great kisser.
How to be a great kisser How to be a great kisser doesn’t only depends on great technique, but even more importantly on the feeling you evoke in your kissing partner.
Types of kisses A long list of different types of kisses you and your partner can try out and have fun with.
Sharing a first kiss with someone you like is a very special experience, and is something that you will remember for the rest of your life. Although there is no right or wrong way to do this, use the following steps as a general guide on how to share a first kiss.
