Commonsense use of body language

When using body language as a way to interpret someone’s motives, use your head, commonsense and be clever about it.

Arm yourself with as much information as possible.

Be sensible.

Follow the suggestion below and enjoy!

Use your common sense

Although reading someone’s body language is a very good indicator of their true feelings, it can be fallible. If you misinterpret something or only see what you want to see, it can backfire on you. Be sensible and trust your gut feelings. If you inner voice is making warning noises – listen.

Look for “clusters”

A single eyebrow-lift or a bit of preening in absence of anything else is meaningless. Look for at least four positive but separate signals (at the same time) before you attach any meaning to it.

Ideally you’ll want a broad smile, shiny eyes with diluted pupils, preening and invasion of you space combined with some accidental-on-purpose-touching.

Know when to give up

Unfortunately we can’t make someone like us. If you did all the moves and send all the right signals a couple of times and still received nothing back – move on.

It just wasn’t meant to be. Do not take it personally. Be sensible and rather use your time and emotional energy on someone that is worth it.





To learn more about body language, go to:

Signs of physical attraction
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Flirting types.
Figure out what type of person you are dealing with and you can develop a very successful flirting style.

Does he like me?
Watch for a few tell-tale signs and you will know what’s on his mind even before he’s made a first move towards you.

Signs of being in love
Want to know the telltale signs of being in love? Falling in love signs are easy to read if you know what to look for.

Does she like me?
Tossing her hair is a way of wafting pheromones in your direction – a direct invitation.

Romantic body language
Without even realizing, your body tells a potential mate that you are available, interested and good breeding stock just by the way you sit, stand and walk.

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