Boyfriends Facebook profile

I've been with my boyfriend 2.5 years and have just joined Facebook after friends kept suggesting I should. I've now seen my boyfriends profile where for over 2 years his status is single, interest is 'women' and having checked the 'friends' he's made are scanty dressed.

I'm angry because it seems he only changed his status last month because I said I was going to join. he wants me to move 250 miles to be with him when moves jobs in next few months, we don't live together now. we're both 34 and I was hoping we'd be good together but not sure now. we've not got any children so that's not an issue.

What does he mean with his profile? Can I trust him?


My answer:

I would be worried if I were in your shoes. It is obvious that he has a backdoor open and ready "in case" and also like to have a bit of fun on the side.

Even if this "fun on the side" is only on the internet and not in real life it is an indication that he is not focused on you alone and is not committing all his attention, time and love to you.

You already have given 2,5 years of your life to this man, please think very carefully before leaving everything you know to go with him. Would you put your life and heart in the hands of someone you can't trust?

Someone once gave me this advice about men: Don't listen to his words, but look at his actions and you will know ...