Aquarius men

When thinking about Aquarius men I get a picture of a absentminded genius professor looking for his glasses in my head. The funny thing is that his glasses will most of the time be sitting on his head unnoticed. Most Aquarians are clever, inventive free thinkers but are also slightly befuddled.

In certain areas of their life’s they are true genius, thinking out of the box, unorthodox intellectuals but in other areas they will be naively childlike and unaware. They are the keepers of ideas and theory. Feelings, emotions, romance and love fall outside of this realm and they tend to rather steer clear of it.

Read more about the Aquarius female.

Despite having very sophisticated ideas Aquarius men will often see emotional reactions to events as a weakness and even somewhat embarrassing. His efforts at romance will be awkward and clumsy at best and his expectations around love will be so idealistic that realistic fulfillment will mostly be impossible. The positive about this is that he will not be a playboy since flirting and romance will never come naturally for him.

Another positive is that Aquarians believe in high levels of integrity and truth and when he declares his love for you, he will truly mean it. Don’t ask him if your bum looks big unless you are prepared for a honest answer! This kind of honesty can be hard on your ego …

Can Aquarius be a love match? Yes, but not in the conventional way. Since he is not a conventional man, being unconventional in love will suit him just fine. You need to approach him through the avenue of friendship. He places a higher value on friendship than on love and romance.

As a friend he is loyal, caring, understanding, a great listener (if you don’t become overly emotional) and will be an objective and wise advisor. A dream friend. You can have your own plans and life as well as a wonderful camaraderie and companionship without the usual divisions of gender roles.

Be prepared that this friendship will take a long, long time (if ever) before it turns into anything deeper. Be prepared to keep on being his buddy even when things between you become romantic. Love will just be another aspect of his life, never all consuming or all-important as with some of the other love signs.

He will see you as his bestest best pal on his journey through life. That is a certain knowledge that can only be gained by being someone’s friend for a long time and holding hands through thick and thin and a great variety of experiences together.

If you want romance, sentimentality and the emotional nuances of love, stay away from this man. If you want a mate who will encourage you to be yourself, lots of freedom to pursue your own goals, a rewarding companionship and stimulation galore, this is the man for you.

A small tip for you: Aquarians just love surprises. He loves receiving them and loves springing them on you.

For more astrology stuff:

Visit the Zodiac love signs page to read about all the love signs,

or the Aquarius personality page,

or learn more about the Aquarius mythology

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